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    Empty words

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    I don’t actually want to spend all my time fighting with people.

    Ideally, when I raise concerns to someone, they would respond from a place of compassion and act promptly for the well-being of other humans and the planet. I personally think that response should be a constitutional minimum, but in fact it is a rare bird.

    More often the responses I get come from a place of complacency: “it’s policy.” As if that’s a complete answer to an unfair or harmful situation.

    Sometimes the administrators are worse than dismissive, and I wonder what the point of Roncarelli v. Duplessis was supposed to be.

    I think the responses that frustrate me the most are the ones with the subtext “we don’t care enough to spend money on this” while the text is empty words intended to sound sweet and make me go away (e.g., “rest assured,” “important to us,” etc.). I have never been inclined to accept empty words.

    The latest battle I don’t actually want to have concerns air quality at a weekly lesson. I raised concerns in December and got dismissed (via unsubstantiated assurances about their ventilation system). So now I have had to escalate to data (over 1900 ppm).

    Ideally they would say “oh wow, we had no idea, we care about our customers and employees and will fix this promptly!” I wonder if it’s actually more likely they’ll ban me from the premises.

    It should not be a radical belief that we deserve clean air and public health measures. What are our priorities that there’s so much resistance to this?


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    Change and anger

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    One of the conclusions I’ve reached lately is that we need drastic changes starting immediately if we expect society and the planet to survive.

    I’ve been trying to volunteer my time towards practical changes but it seems to me like most groups are desperately clinging to an untenable status quo in their approach. It feels like denial. I need them to at least admit we’re taking on buckets of water before handing me a thimble to start bailing with.

    But preferably we would prioritize a better long-term plan. A sustainable approach, or at least a less obviously, catastrophically unsustainable one.

    I wonder what strategic planning sessions are like these days. What is the ratio of “basically status quo” to “we are heading straight at an iceberg” participants? It’s not comfortable to speak out against a culture that’s so heavily invested in its own mythology. There are consequences. Rarely are those consequences “you’re right, thanks for pointing it out” followed by concerted effort.

    Another opinion I’ve formed is that there’s a lot of legitimate anger about contemporary issues but many people direct it at the wrong targets. It’s easy to get angry at someone with less power than you who is competing for finite resources; it’s hard to get angry at the powerful systems creating that unnecessary competition in the first place and then vilifying non-conformity for good measure.

    Anger can rage out of control and cause significant harm, but it can also be motivating. The trick, I think, is in figuring out the appropriate target for anger, what the real-world problems and solutions are, as cognitively dissonant and non-status quo as they may be.

    I suppose another part of the trick is in being heard.


  • Admin

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    I haven’t posted in a few days because I’ve been working on a lot of other writing and admin, some pretty huge personal and financial stuff. I’ve added a few comments to earlier work though, at least a link to a great piece on the Supreme Court scandal and two new ideas re: grocery bags. I doubt anyone will notice when I comment on my own website, but at least it’s organized.

    I was thinking I might get business cards made up, with the URL. I’d have to finally settle on how to describe myself, though. “Writer” and “commentator” are probably safe to apply. They don’t convey enough on their own, but I could maybe have my categories printed on the back to help contextualize (politics, law, language, etc.).

    But what is the point of a boring business card so I’m also considering “freelance shit-disturber” or “aspiring agitator,” and maybe “occasional dog walker.”


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    “Woman” v. “Person with a vagina”

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    There is a bizarre scandal out of the Supreme Court of Canada, related to the language used in the sexual assault case R. v. Kruk, 2024 SCC 7. Like, “condemned by l’Assemblée nationale and various (male) commentators for contributing to the invisibilization of women” levels of bizarre.

    The relevant paragraph is from Justice Martin, plus Chief Justice Wagner and Justices Côté, Kasirer, Jamal and O’Bonsawin, at 109:

    Where a person with a vagina testifies credibly and with certainty that they felt penile‑vaginal penetration, a trial judge must be entitled to conclude that they are unlikely to be mistaken. While the choice of the trial judge to use the words “a woman” may have been unfortunate and engendered confusion, in context, it is clear the judge was reasoning that it was extremely unlikely that the complainant would be mistaken about the feeling of penile‑vaginal penetration because people generally, even if intoxicated, are not mistaken about that sensation. In other words, the judge’s conclusion was grounded in his assessment of the complainant’s testimony. The Court of Appeal erred in finding otherwise.

    I will admit up front that I haven’t managed to read the entire case and its history because I exceeded my limit on reading sexual assault cases a while ago. The law of sexual assault is dense with (1) stereotypes and generalizations and “how could he have known?” precedents and (2) complicated legal provisions and tests intended to combat (1). It seems to me that all of this combines to obscure the actual lived experience of victims in favour of abstract debates about things like judicial notice of the sensory capabilities of hypothetical or statistical vaginas. It’s depressing.

    But I will talk about language.

    The first sentence of para. 109 seems inarguable to me. We’re specifically talking about the feeling of a penis penetrating a vagina, so “a person with a vagina” is fine / correct. It is legally irrelevant whether that person is a woman or not. It does not make them any more or less credible about whether they felt a penis penetrate their vagina.

    The first part of the second sentence is odd if the trial judge wasn’t misgendering the complainant. The coverage suggests there’s no reason to believe the trial judge erred on that point, so it’s unclear why the Supreme Court would chastise for it. It’s a big deal when the highest court in the land puts into the public record that your word choice was unfortunate and engendered confusion!1 Failing to use gender-neutral language where there’s no reason to believe the relevant person prefers it does not seem egregious enough to merit a judicial knuckle-rapping. The point could still have been made without it that “person with a vagina” is available, inclusive language.

    But I don’t believe the Supreme Court with this half-sentence is just free-range insisting lower courts start avoiding the word “woman” in favour of the phrase “person with a vagina.” That is a bizarre and paranoid take. Hysterical, even.2

    Sometimes “woman” will be the right choice. It is, for example, the right word when it’s the International Day of Women Judges and we’re celebrating the fact that the Supreme Court of Canada for the first time since its creation in 1875 has a majority of female justices. “Should it be rewritten to say that we honour judges with vaginas?” No. They were not appointed because of their vaginas. They were appointed because of their intelligence and their achievements, and this despite the sexism against women that continues to exist in the legal system and society generally. That’s worth celebrating.

    It is inclusive to say “person with a vagina” when the vagina is relevant to the discussion. It is demeaning to look at a historic photo of five women who have achieved extraordinary professional success against significant odds and say “but let’s talk about what’s under their robes.”

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    1. I assume “engendered” is deliberate wordplay here. There is no such wordplay in the French: “Bien que le choix du juge du procès d’utiliser les mots « une femme » puisse avoir été regrettable et causé de la confusion…”. ↩︎
    2. For anyone who enjoys footnotes for wordplay, “hysteria” was “basically the medical explanation for ‘everything that men found mysterious or unmanageable in women’,” blamed specifically on the uterus. ↩︎

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    The debut of “ongoing projects”

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    I’ve created a page for ongoing projects, accessible via the sidebar.

    I also wrote about one of those projects, specifically the one that concerns grocery bags. I’m aware this is not the most serious issue in the world. They can’t all be.

    Since I don’t know if “pages” get emailed the same way that posts do, here is a post about a page.